I’m a big reader of fiction and non fiction books and when I was pregnant I wanted to read books that were informative about giving birth and being a mom but that didn’t scare the crap out of you. Here’s a little list of some of my favourite mom books:
1. Pregnancy, Childbirth and the Newborn: the Complete Guide by Penny Simkin, Janet Whalley, Ann Keppler, Janelle Durham and April Bolding (available on Amazon)
This book is extremely informative and helpful without being so daunting and listing everything that can go wrong with your pregnancy and scare the crap out of you. After a lot of looking online and reading reviews I chose this book and I’m so glad I did. It was great for if you were hoping to have a natural birth and gave suggestions for techniques on coping with pain. It also had really good information on medications for relief like laughing gas or an epidural. I found for me, the more research I did the less nervous I was about going into labour and the more prepared I felt to deal with whatever came up. I know everyone is different and some people would rather just not think about it in which case you probably don’t want to read this book.
2. Mom Truths by Cat and Nat
I bought this book as a gift for every pregnant girl I knew. It was not only hilarious but gave the absolute realistic picture of life as a mom. It was extremely relatable and gave practical advice on the new adventure of parenthood. They tell candid stories of their own experiences that I still laugh about. It made me feel like you were being warmly welcomed into this New Mom club and I will continue to buy it for every pregnant girl I know.
3. Little Fires Everywhere by Celeste Ng
Okay so this book really hit me. It was one of those things that I think if I wasn’t a mom I wouldn’t have enjoyed it as much, that’s not to say that anyone who isn’t a mom wouldn’t enjoy it. I felt like I related to it so deeply, reading about Elena Richardson and her need for everything being orderly and scheduled was like reading about myself. But it also had a way of seeming to relate to every mother or woman wanting to be a mother. There was one paragraph that is probably the most heart touching thing I’ve ever read, talking about your child not being a person but a place that you always want to return to and you can see their past, present and future self in their little faces. It made me think of after I put Baby T to bed I often find myself watching videos of her or looking at pictures on my phone because I don’t want to let go of seeing her face. Anyway, the storyline itself was very good and kept me up late trying to find out the ending! I did watch the tv show on Amazon Prime after reading the book and unfortunately they did change a good chunk of the storyline so I found it didn’t really do the book justice.
There you have it, my top 3 books to read as a new mom. I hope if you get a chance to read any of these books you enjoy them and find them as helpful as I have.