It’s a beautiful Saturday morning and I’m here to talk about the best clothes to have on hand for the first few weeks after you have your baby, and beyond. I ended up having to go out and buy, or order online, several items within the first couple of weeks and going out isn’t something that was my forte at that point. So here’s a quick list of basic things and also where to buy them. I consider myself a pretty frugal person so a lot of these items are very fairly priced especially if there’s a sale.
First, you’re going to need a good, comfy large pair of pyjamas. If you’re breastfeeding you’ll want something that has what I like to call “boobie access” for feeding your little one through the night. You’ll also want it to be very lightweight because if you had swelling like I did you might sweat profusely for the first three weeks in your sleep to get rid of all the water you were retaining (I’m talking A LOT like you might have to sleep on a towel). Mine consisted of a large thin sweater which usually ended up coming off through the night (like I said, sweaty mess) but was perfect for wearing in bed during the day or around the house, also a pair of large blue shorts that was one of the few items that still fit me at the end of my pregnancy. My husband got me both from Winners for $24 on a day when I was feeling down and needed a pick-me-up. He also included my favourite chocolate bar. Who knew that buying clothing for your wife that’s two sizes too big for her pre-pregnant body would brighten her day. I also had a soft button up nightgown that I brought to wear at the hospital that was so perfect, from Walmart for $20 give or take.
Next on the list is leggings. I wore my maternity leggings for the first few weeks because everything else pressed on my belly too much and didn’t feel so nice. I got mine from H&M for only $15 and they were fantastic. They were also one of the last things left that fit me at the end of pregnancy. After a couple of weeks, I graduated to some of my other leggings but only if they were nice and stretchy.
Moving on we have nursing bras. If you’re planning or hoping to breastfeed you’re going to need nursing bras, and quite a few of them. If you breastfeed for a year you have to wear those suckers 24/7 for months and months. I purchased one from Walmart a couple of weeks before my due date that fit me at that time but also had some room to grow. It was only about $20. After I had my baby I bought nighttime nursing bras that were nice and comfy bras with, you guessed it, easy “boobie access”. I still wear these every night 9 months later. They were also from H&M and were 2 for $35. Once I got more settled into nursing and had to leave the house more I bought another 2 pack of daytime nursing bras for $35 from H&M as well. A couple of things when buying nursing bras; if you’re buying them before you have your baby only get one or two since you’re not sure what size you’ll need until after your milk comes in and you start to regulate your supply and also make sure you buy bras with removable padding. I had clogged ducts throughout breastfeeding and would commonly get them after wearing a bra with padding which is one of the things you should avoid if you’re prone to clogged ducts. I wish I knew that before, but now at least I can pass on the wisdom. Fortunately, all of the bras I bought did have removable padding so I didn’t have to buy new ones upon this discovery.
Alright, the last thing on the list is nursing tops and sweaters. Again, if you’re planning or hoping to breastfeed you’re going to need a good supply of these. When you’re nursing outside the comfort of your own home, chances are you’re not going to be as comfortable lifting whatever shirt you’re wearing and having your belly all exposed. I purchased a 2 pack (gotta love the 2 packs) of nursing tank tops also from H&M for $30 and they’re so easy for wearing under shirts that you already have, so if you lift your shirt your belly won’t be out if you don’t want it to be. You also don’t have to wear a nursing bra underneath these because they have a support strap built-in. I also got a few nursing shirts that popped up on sale from H&M and also Thyme Maternity including a nursing sweatshirt which is perfect for putting on over the tank tops and doesn’t even look like a nursing sweatshirt. It is light and has two big slits down the side so you can just lift it and feed your baby. It can also be worn when your pregnant and will fit your baby belly. In case you didn’t notice I am very excited about this sweatshirt it was probably the best purchase I made for breastfeeding attire even though it was the most expensive. Unfortunately, it’s not available on the H&M website anymore but if you can find a nursing sweatshirt it’s a great purchase (GAP Canada currently has something similar), especially if you live in Canada and are breastfeeding through winter.
There you have it! My top affordable clothes to have postpartum. I wore all of these items every day for at least the first few weeks after having Baby T and I continue to wear the majority of them 9 months later. It’s best to get some good staple items that can go with a variety of outfits especially when you’re in it for the long haul and potentially more babies.