7 Baby Things I Never Knew I Needed

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Even though there are endless lists of things to buy before a baby arrives at home, you never really know what you’re going to need (or how much) until the time actually comes because every baby and family is different. Here are seven things that I didn’t know I needed. 

Diaper Wipe Warmer – Our friends who had their baby six months before us got one of these and I remember thinking, “that’s a waste of money, babies don’t need that!” Well, six months later when we had our own teeny tiny baby that seems like the most fragile, delicate thing we had ever seen and she deserves warm butt wipes. She hated getting undressed and getting her bum changed it seemed like the last thing she wanted was something cold cleaning her up. While I still don’t think this is an absolutely essential thing for babies, I’m just saying don’t write it off because you will literally do anything to make that little baby’s life as comfortable as possible.

Blackout Curtains – These became an important purchase for two reasons. First, Baby T took all of her naps on me or on someone else for the first six months of her life until we finally trained her to take them in her own crib. When that time finally came one of the biggest tips was to make sure the room was dark which is obviously very hard to do on a sunny afternoon unless you have blackout curtains. Second, Baby T was born in November and where we live for the winter months it gets pitch black by 5:30, so whenever she was ready for bed it was nice and dark and there was no need for curtains. Once it got into spring and summer the sun would stay out until 7:30 or 8pm and her bedtime had moved up to that time. Having a good set of blackout curtains made it seem like it was nighttime in her room even when we were sat outside enjoying the sunset. 

A Laundry Bin – Not just any laundry bin, a big and sturdy laundry bin specifically for the baby’s room. There is a lot of laundry, and I do Baby T’s laundry twice as much as I do our own and keep it all separate so I can use the baby detergent on hers. It saves time on sorting everything out of one laundry bin. 

Dimmable Lamp – We have a little IKEA dimmable lamp on a table next to Baby T’s crib. The ceiling light in her room is a very bright white light and not very relaxing right before bed, so having this lamp which is a much more warm tone is perfect for helping her make the transition to bedtime. Before she’s even in the room to get ready for bed I turn off the ceiling light and turn on the lamp so that as soon as she’s in there she knows what time it is. The dimming is perfect as well for the odd time we have had to go in and check on her through the night if she’s sick and needs medicine, we only need to put on a little bit of light to see and we’re not fully waking her up. 

Lots of PJs – One thing I have always felt like I did not have enough of is pyjamas. For every size I have tried to have about five or six sets of pyjamas. When she was newborn we needed to make sure we always had extra incase she spat up on the ones she was wearing (which could sometimes happen multiple times in one night), and when she got bigger it helped to cut down on the amount of laundry I had to do. For a while, we only had three pairs in one size and I had to do laundry everyday to make sure I always had an extra set in case of a mess emergency. 

A Carrier/Wrap – There were some days that Baby T would not let me put her down and I thought I was going to go crazy. I wouldn’t be able to eat or drink because she was constantly falling asleep on me. My midwife recommended going to my local Babywearing Group (they were on Facebook), so one day my mother in law and I packed up the baby and took her. They had every different kind of baby wearing wrap and contraption ever made and they showed you exactly how to use them, they even had a lending library of wraps that you could take one home and try it out! After borrowing a woven wrap and trying it out I decided to buy my own and it was amazing! Whenever Baby T was fussy and clingy I would wrap her on me and she would fall asleep instantly in it so I could make myself something to eat and move around without disturbing her. I honestly wish I had gotten one sooner!

A Bassinet That Vibrates – My boss sold me a bassinet that she had used only a couple of times for her grandkids. I hadn’t really looked into bassinets but it was like brand new so it seemed like a good choice. Little did we know it also had a vibrate function that would save our sanity! I don’t know if this is a bad habit to get some babies into or whatever but Baby T put herself to sleep at as little as one week old in that bassinet because of the vibrating function! I would feed her, swaddle her up and lay her down and before I was even turning off our bedside table and climbing into bed her eyes were closing and she was out. It had a 40 minute time limit so if she ever woke up in the middle of the night and wasn’t hungry, I would turn it back on and she would go right back to sleep. We starting thinking that when she moved into her crib and didn’t have the vibration that she wouldn’t put herself back to sleep anymore but I think it actually made her so used to it that it wasn’t an issue!

These are just seven things that I found made life as a new mom a little easier on top of everything else that babies need, but like I said, every baby and mom is different so there could be even more little things that I don’t even know about. If you’re a new mom what’s something you didn’t know you needed? 

Hello 2021!

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2020 has certainly had its moments and it’s a year that has brought challenges and changes. It’s had its dark times as well as hopeful times. We’re ending it off in a Lockdown in Ontario of course, but I have some hope that 2021 will be better. 

A Year In Review

Obviously we all know about the bad things that have happened this year. It was also a year that I had my first beach vacation with Baby T in Florida, I learned that I am capable of taking care of my baby on my own even through some difficult mental health issues but at the same time it’s okay to ask for help when it’s needed, and also how to juggle working part-time with spending time with my family. 

The New Year

With a New Year comes new goals. You already saw in my last post my goals for the blog, but I also have some goals for myself for the year. Of course, like everyone else, taking care of myself physically is a priority including working out and eating better. There’s also making the most of the time I get to spend with the people I love, planning fun activities each weekend to do as a family and hopefully getting to go on some mini adventures even if we have to stay close to home. 

All in all, I hope that 2021 brings better and brighter times for everyone and brings us a little closer to some normalcy again. 

What to Expect from My Blog

I wanted to give a little update of my plans for my blog, we’re coming up on almost seven months of blogging which is honestly more than I even thought I would do. I appreciate the likes, comments and subscribers so much! It’s been such a fun passion project for me and I have every intention of keeping it going for as long as I’m able to! 

Blog Schedule

In order to keep the blog going I though it would be good to make more of a schedule for posting, so starting with my next post (next week) I will be posting once a week on Thursdays at 8 pm. I’m a working mom now and I want to make sure that I keep my time organized to make the most of time with my family as well as my hobbies (and keep on top of the house work).

Pinterest

All of my posts will now also be posted on my Pinterest page which you can also follow here > www.pinterest.com/evangelyntavaresca if you would like or by clicking the Pinterest symbol on this page. 

Blog Topics

I will still be covering a variety of topics including Mom-blogs, Parenting Tips, Travel Series and continuing my blog challenge. I’d also like to introduce an Affordable Fixes Series for Home Decor and Fashion where I will share my finds for affordable items in these categories. 

Again, I want to say a big thank you to those of you who have been with me since the beginning and such a good support and welcome to newer ones! I hope my blog continues to give you new ideas to try and most importantly, makes you smile!